Toxic relationship test & red flags
Red flag checker
A toxic relationship test built on your real texts. Spot repeating pressure, stonewalling, and hot-and-cold energy with cited messages.
AI relationship analysis tool
Stop being delulu about your relationship
The AI that understands your WhatsApp history better than you do
Can't remember what was said? The AI quotes the exact message and timestamp.
13 Jun 2026
You
Can you please come and pick me up?
18:08
PartnerQuoted
I'm coming right after this game babe
18:10
You
Thanks for not picking me up 😒
20:44
What it checks
Is it a red flag or are you just spiraling?
Text message psychology
Chemistry read
Text message psychology applied to tone, latency, effort, and repair. See whether chemistry is mutual or one-sided.
Relationship advice AI
Situationship clarity
Relationship advice AI that stays grounded in the thread. No fortune-cookie takes when one bubble sent you spiraling.
Receipts
Quote them where it matters
Because vague relationship advice is not enough. When the answer quotes someone, Deluly AI can show the exact message and the context it was sent in.
Example quote
13 Jun 2026
You
You said we will watch a movie together.
18:09
PartnerQuoted
Yes right, I never said that.
18:10
You
That is exactly what you said.
18:11
Identify problems
See the pattern before it owns you
The report pulls recurring conflict loops, tone shifts, and repair attempts so you stop guessing what "felt off" was about.
Work toward solutions
From what happened? to what now?
Use follow ups for boundaries, scripts, de-escalation, or how to bring something up.
Common Questions
Privacy, Accuracy & How It Works
Is my WhatsApp chat data safe and private?
Yes. Your export is encrypted in transit (TLS) and at rest (AES-256) while processed in the EU (europe-west1). Raw chat logs are deleted from primary processing after your report is generated—typically within 48 hours. We do not use your chats to train AI models. See our Privacy Policy for retention and GDPR rights.
Will my partner know I uploaded our chat?
No. Deluly AI is completely anonymous and private. We do not notify any participants in the chat, and your generated report is strictly for your eyes only.
How accurate is the relationship AI?
Deluly AI uses advanced forensic sentiment analysis trained on clinical relationship psychology (like attachment theory and conflict resolution patterns). While it provides highly accurate behavioral insights based on your texts, it is an analytical tool, not a licensed human therapist.
Can I use this for group chats or friendships?
Deluly AI is specifically optimized for romantic relationships, situationships, and dating dynamics. While you can upload a friendship chat, the insights (like attachment styles and romance metrics) are tailored for one-on-one romantic pairs.
Do I need to translate my chat to English first?
No! Our AI natively understands most major languages, slang, and even "texting speak" (like abbreviations and keyboard smashes). Just upload the raw export as it is.
Are photos and videos from our chat included in the export?
No. A standard WhatsApp “Export chat” .txt file contains message text only—it does not include images, videos, stickers, or voice notes. Deluly AI analyzes what is in that text file; we never receive your media attachments from the export.
How it works
How do we read the chat?
- You upload your WhatsApp chat export (.txt)
- Our relationship advice AI analyzes tone, timing, conflict loops, and repair
- You get a structured report plus follow-up questions with quoted messages
- Raw logs are deleted after processing—see our retention policy below
One-time purchase
Relationship analysis
$10
One-time · report + credits included
- Full relationship report
- 5 credits for follow-up questions
- No subscription
Upload your chat export to get started.
How to export WhatsApp chat for AI analysis
UI shown is a simplified illustration. Exact labels vary by WhatsApp version and platform (iOS / Android)
Upload
Ready for the relationship analysis?
Upload your WhatsApp export for a private relationship analysis report and follow up questions. WhatsApp export steps
Privacy & security
Your chat stays yours—we are not here to hoard it
Uploading a relationship export is intimate. Deluly is built for people who need a WhatsApp chat analyzer without feeling like they handed their diary to a data broker. We combine encrypted transport, EU hosting, a zero-retention mindset for raw logs, and GDPR-aligned processing—details in our Privacy Policy.
Encrypted in transit and at rest
WhatsApp messages are end-to-end encrypted on the app itself. When you upload an export, it travels over TLS 1.3 and is stored with AES-256 encryption in our EU infrastructure while analysis runs.
Zero-retention philosophy for raw chats
We treat your export as sensitive. Raw chat logs are removed from primary processing after your report is generated (typically within 48 hours). Generated reports are kept for a limited window so you can revisit insights—not forever.
GDPR-aligned EU processing
Data is processed in Google Cloud europe-west1 (Belgium). Hosting and subprocessors are chosen to support GDPR and POPIA-style privacy expectations for relationship data.
No training on your conversations
Your upload is analyzed in an isolated Vertex AI environment. Deluly does not use your chats to train public models—you get a private read, not fuel for the internet.
Not therapy or legal advice. Only upload chats you have permission to analyze. You can request deletion under GDPR—see Terms and Privacy.
Read full privacy policy